Ramona Singer Versus The Mistress, Kasey Dexter!

A recent luncheon for “Real Housewife of New York,” was anything but effortless. Page Six reported that last Wednesday while eating at an Italian restaurant, Mario Singer’s mistress, Kasey Dexter showed up.

Apparently Dexter was asked to leave. She indicated she had to use the restroom and then tried to get to the dining room where Ramona was. The manager grabbed hold of Dexter who screamed “You just don’t want me to tell her I’m still [bleep]ing her husband!” 

Dexter was then taken out of the restaurant. Apparently Ramona did not see her getting dragged out by the manager, John Djomblic, who confirmed the story to Page Six. Ramona had no comment and Dexter didn’t respond to their request for a comment.

It is unclear when the affair began between 32-year old, Dexter and Mario, but apparently it has been going on for some time. Reports are that she became pregnant with Mario’s baby last summer but either had a miscarriage or an abortion. The affair came to the public’s attention last January after Ramona caught the pair in the Singer’s home in the Hampton’s. Ramona filed for divorce shortly afterwards but never followed through on it. She and Mario have been working things out according to Ramona.

This past May, Dexter’s attorney sent the Singer’s attorney an email stating that she had thousands of emails, text messages and phone calls from Mario as well as calls from Ramona. She also stated the Mario had told her he was leaving Ramona.

Mario and Ramona took legal action, sending a Cease & Desist to Dexter. My guess is that it was more from Ramona and not Mario. Their C&D claimed Dexter was harassing them with “unsolicited, lewd, lascivious and salacious messages” even after the couple kept telling her to stop. However, Mario is said to have contacted Dexter after the letter was sent.

The source said:

“That letter won’t hold up in court. Mario has been calling Kasey and crying. He wants Kasey in his life.”

Prior to these legal letters being exchanged, Dexter apparently penned her own letter detailing the dirty details of her affair with Mario. She sent it to Ramona this past spring after she called off the divorce.

The letter which was published by InTouch magazine started out by saying “Within days (of meeting), we had an intense sexual relationship. I had no intention of hurting you. I know if must tear you up inside to read this, but he wouldn’t let me go – and I didn’t want to let him go,” she wrote.

Dexter also claimed that Mario and she were still dating. “We never ended our relationship – ever. Even after he moved back home to you, he was speaking to me.” She went on to say that Mario talked about his feelings to her (Dexter) every day.

 “He told me he loved me every day. I don’t think we ever fought except when we were in Boca and you texted him during dinner.” To make matters worse she wrote: “Every time I tell him I have to move he reminds me of how good our sex life is. I know you probably don’t believe me, but I was under the impression that Mario was leaving you.”

Dexter ended the letter by saying:

“I love him, but do not want to continue to be involved unless you are out of his life. If not, I’m going to let him go. You and I have both suffered tremendously.”

So this begs the questions – Is Mario still involved with her? Why would Ramona stay? Can their relationship survive the public scrutiny? If Dexter purposely sought Ramona out at the restaurant should she get a restraining order?

This almost sounds like a fatal attraction.