Ramona Singer Admires Bethenny’s Strength & New Role As “Mediator” In The Crew #RHONY

On the Real Housewives of New York, there was more vagina talk than when lackluster castmate, Cindy Barshop, held a vajazzle party. Even Ramona Singer takes a moment to talk lady parts in her blog this week.

“It’s funny, coming from a family of three sisters, I don’t think we ever talked about vaginas as much as we did this episode! Not that I am shy or reserved but watching and listening and looking at pictures, (thank you Jules), it was kind of a girls club!”

Ramona has surprised us all by playing peacemaker all season. Not a role she’s known for, that’s for sure. And while her friendship with Sonja Morgan has weakened, her relationship with Bethenny Frankel has grown stronger.

“Friendships have ebbs and flows, and I do think that throughout this season you really see a lot more of that. So although people may read it as who is doing what to who, I see it so differently. I see that we all grow; we all get to know each other in different ways. Our interests may change; our lives may change.”

She’s not apologizing for it either.

“I will never defend who I choose to be friends with. I know what I like and need in a friendship. I know what I am capable of giving back. So whether it’s Dorinda being an amazing friend to Jules or myself or Bethenny and Carole growing closer during this season, no one ever has a reason to judge.”

On Watch What Happens Live, Bethenny admitted that of all the women, Ramona was there for her during her recuperation.

“…while watching tonight and seeing the pain again that Bethenny was going through really brought me to tears. Any surgery is so scary and although a lot of women do go through it, when it’s happening directly to you, it never feels the same! But I must say through it all Bethenny still remained strong and handled things face on.”

In a way, I think Ramona and Bethenny have a lot in common. They both came from very dysfunctional homes. But while Ramona has been able to maintain relationships—despite her often crazy behavior—Bethenny seems to be, at her core, a loner. I think Ramona is more trusting, more open. She held her marriage together for a couple of decades, so that’s something.

“At this point in our lives I do believe that we should all try to get along better and respect each other. Because it’s the respect that counts in the long run. Deep down we all are sensitive and all have our soft spots. I guess that is why I have chosen to really try to be the mediator, try to bring everyone together…Only time will tell.”

This is a whole new side of Ramona. I don’t think it will last, but it’s interesting to see her try to bring everyone together. What’s your take?

 

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