Kandi Burruss Feels Phaedra Brushed Off What She Was Going Through

Posted on Mar 17 2015 - 12:24pm by Dani-K

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Lately it seems as if Kandi Burruss, star of “Real Housewives Of Atlanta,” has been getting extremely emotional each week. And who can blame her, she’s been through a lot. Her difficult mama. The televised wedding event. The pre-nup debacle. The closing of her musical. Marriage counseling with Todd. And now, on top of all that, Phaedra is making Kandi sing the blues.

On this week’s Bravo blog, Kandi addresses her emotions during her sit down with Phaedra.

“It probably wasn’t the best time to go talk to her, but I was wondering what was going on with our friendship that she had to discuss it with NeNe and Porsha without ever mentioning to me that there was a problem.”

Kandi said she was “irritated” that Phaedra tried to compare their distressful situations, claiming hers – baby daddy going to prison – trumps Kandi’s – play closure.

“Watching this episode, it irritated me to see Phaedra try to brush off what was going on with me by saying that I was just upset about a bad business deal. I wasn’t upset about the money. There was a whole bunch of stuff that was going on with me that she didn’t take the time to ask about either. And now just because I didn’t text her every day, I’m a bad friend.”

When asked if she and Phaedra had resolved their issues, Kandi made this girl, please statement.

“I don’t know if they’re resolved or not. Obviously she doesn’t tell me when there is a problem. I guess only NeNe or Porsha knows. Or I’ll find out while watching the show. I just find it so crazy that she was confiding in them about how I’m not a good friend… Had the shoe been on the other foot, I would never have discussed our friendship with them before talking to her about it.”

During the therapy session, Kandi’s comment to Dr. Jeff is what makes NeNe take off her socks and put on her walking shoes. What was Kandi thinking during this?

“I was thinking, ‘Why am I here?’” She continued, “NeNe never feels that she is wrong, and if you tell her that she is or if you don’t agree with her, then she’s going to have a problem with you. I didn’t even want to say my opinion. I hate that Dr. Jeff even asked me to say anything.”

Don’t hate the player, Kandi, hate the game. She ended her blog by answering if she was surprised that NeNe walked out. “Yes and no. Yes, because she put the counseling session together, and no, because she loves to give a dramatic exit.”

No need for sunglasses with all this shade!


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  • italiano bambino

    I want to see the outcome of those two in the reunion (Fakedra and Kandi) i bet more shit is going to come out. Nene had it coming and i think the reunion is going to be CRAZY.

    • Bad Barbie

      Kandi is probably going to “bye Felicia” Fraudra.

  • Shelly Jones

    I wonder if Phaedra resents that Kandi has a new fresh marriage and hers has gone asunder? IDK…I think Phaedra should not have gone to Hene and Whoresha about their friendship. After all, didn’t Hene get mad at Cynthia for talking about their friendship to “these girls who don’t care about them”, but its ok for her to get in the middle smh. Isn’t that what she claimed Kenya would try to do at last year’s reunion?

    • Bad Barbie

      Fraudra and Nene were not even friends till like 2 weeks agooooooooo…

  • Bad Barbie

    Is Nene crazy threatening the counselor about his license? That he should be “worried about his license”? Is she planning on reporting him because things didn’t go her way. I be she expected to be the Ring Master at therapy like she was at Pillow Night and set people up. This episode certified how immature and a bully Nene really is. I am not watching if she is back next season. She is repulsive and pathetic.

    • ♥♥♥ Tigerlily ·.¸¸.·*¨·.·.¸¸.

      ITA BB. I was like, oh no she didn’t LOL!
      Bish is beyond crazy to go there. How dare she!
      Dr. Jeff goes way back. To like Sally Jesse Raphael days, ya know.

      • Bad Barbie

        Who does Nene think she is anyway? There are countless hours of footage showing what an insecure, manipulative, abusive, narcissistic bully she is and we don’t need Dr. Jeff to tell us her profile.

  • My best friend and I have a Waiting to Exhale type friendship. We are both going through our own separate life dramas, but at the end of the day, if I felt she wasn’t being attentive to what I was going through, I would pick up the phone and call her, and I know she’d do the same. I would never discuss her with anyone else, especially someone I know she doesn’t like. Phake on the other hand did that. Kandi asked Phake point blank was something wrong and she said no! Not once in their discussion did Phake ask about Kandi and how her life was going. It was all about Phake and her scamming, scheming con artist husband she married. She basically said that all Kandi was going through was a cancelled play, like hundreds of people lives weren’t on the line, like she doesn’t have marital issues, and other family drama of her own. Phake is a selfish “friend”. I just hope Kandi can the light.

  • Trippinhhard

    kandi you gate mouth crying Bitch, you make me sick.. You disloyal controlling insecure Bitch..
    FHEDRA was YOYR friend, and yes U should feel like the Jack ass you are—U selfish self centered Bitch. What Fhedra is going thru, is horrible and disgusting, HUMMILATING, HUMBLING, SHE has two boys,.ll but your selfish ass worried about a fricking dollar, when you are wealthy BITCH..You Ms Kandi with your cheap ass self, DIdnt do your homework and yes, that’s all on you. kandi U can’t take critism, you allow UR employees to belittle and insult TODD in front of you..Bitch U deserve all the misery coming your way.. U too damn selfish. I hoping TODD gets the hell away from you, you are toxic and you only think of yourself and your feelings. U too damn old to act this way, JOYCE s down deep I your soul, because you two are EXACTLY ALIKE. SELFISH N DONT CARE WHAT ITHERS FEEL—ugh
    I disn’t like the fake southern bell from the start,mbut Fhedra has so good one liners.., she was suppose to be a friend, no wonder you have no friends, because U don’t know how to hw a friend—-UNLESS THE TWO OF YOU HAVE SLEPT WITH THE SAME MAN…bye Bitch, cry U gate ugly ass mouth off..
    Thanks for the recap, bec the shows are sickening..,
    One more thing kandi UR nose been up Kenya ass akso this season, so cry your ugly heart out, you still will never figure out you are the problem.

  • Bonita Gee

    Yes Kandi SAYS she’s upset about the play but think she’s really MORE upset about her failing marriage and just doesn’t want to admit it. Because admitting it would be admitting that Mama Joyce was aright about Todd all along. Lately he seems so unconcerned with her and EVERYTHING.
    He didn’t even answer the therapist when she asked ”Is there someone else you’re seeing in L.A.? Oh well, well see how it all plays out.


  • colleen

    Ironic that it was PHADREA who was Todd’s biggest cheerleader and player Matchmaker in the Todd/Kandi hook up