#LHHNY Fatal Attraction: The Real Tea Behind The Beef Between Mendeecees, Remy & Yandy Smith

Posted on Feb 20 2015 - 11:31am by Editor


This week on “Love & Hip Hop New York,” Yandy Smith and her fiancée, Mendeecees Harris, conflicted over Mendeecees’ new assistant, Remy. The couple butted heads over Remy’s inappropriate attire, unprofessional behavior and social media postings. Yandy exploded on Remy, calling her out for wearing slutty night club clothes on the job. Then later in the episode, the ladies sat down for a heated discussion that did not end well.

Before Yandy had her meeting to put Mendeecees’ new assistant in check, Mendeecees’ assistant met with Mendeecees’ to discuss how disrespected she felt by Yandy when she visited the studio – and things got really strange.

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In unseen bonus footage, Remy and Mendeecees’ are hanging out doing shots and upon exiting the venue, Remy grabs Mendeecees’ arm like they are a couple. Mendeecees’ does not appreciate his assistant’s unprofessional behavior and addresses it immediately. Have a look at the clip below:

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The drama spilled over to Instagram when Remy explained her relationship with Mendeecees’:


After Remy posted her side of the story, Yandy immediately clapped back, insinuating Remy was a stalker fan (stan):

“I got your message sweetheart. No one ever said you were a random girl off the street. You and I both know the scene was edited and I spoke about just how we met in the scene. I met you in the mall, you were a huge supporter and showed up to every single booking in the city, all my EGL events, every jewelry party, church, even personal engagements with my family and I was always welcoming because I’m all about women empowerment and taking someone under my wing.
Now ish changes when you doing the same thing to my man. Let’s be real, I told you about protocol well before TV when you mentioned getting into this business. 1.) dress for the job you want not the job you have 2.) be professional at all times with the people associated with the job you want 3.) educate yourself and keep people around you smarter than you so you can learn. Never was attach yourself to someone’s man and show up to all his events part of the “mentorship advise”. Still I let that slide. You got the job by lying to him and telling him you worked for EGL (one of the companies I own), instead of hitting me up you DM’d him and told him you worked for me(fail), you then got inappropriate and tried to lock arms with him walking out the club while taking abunch of sneak selfie pics. That’s when you lost your damn mind and had to get told about yourself. INAPPROPRIATE at its best.
I was I shock to see you walk in with my same outfit, as I again was about to have a mentorship conversation with you. That weirdo ishhoney! I gave you a bunch of chances because I always want to see a young girl win but honey you have been CHOPPED!To my Insta followers…love Yall but if you know anything about me I don’t play with my family and I don’t play with my hubby. Not insecure at all just not for the games #staystrong #useyour15minsOFfameWisely #getbooked #maybeI’llmanageyou2 #besmart this will be deleted in a hour don’t want to pollute my page”


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  • HoyesMiGente

    Yandy, Yandy, Yandy. smh. Disappointed. A boss don’t fight the help.

    • HoyesMiGente

      And a boss doesn’t play friend, and then call someone out their character. Nobody want your man. And if he can be taken, you with the wrong one.

  • Yolie

    I personally think Mendeecee and the assistant may had had a fling because the Remy is reckless with her behavior and disrespect to Yandy. She expected Mendeecee to defend her to Yandy. That’s classic side chick behavior. The way Remy dressed for work said it all. And her way of doing, by showing little to no respect for her boss his wife speaks volumes.

    • BuckJohnson

      Your spot on, spot on. For her to do what she has been doing is classic side chick and one that is trying to say to the main chick without saying it that I’m having sex with your man. And then him trying to act like in this clip what are you doing I’m your boss etc. etc. was BS. I saw the way he was looking at her in the bar, another thing what boss would take their assistant to a bar doing shots when his pregnant wife had already talked about her and him maybe doing something. No, what happened is that she let slip by grabbing his arm with the camera around and he had to “check” her without checking her. Trust me that man is having sex with her you can count on that.

      • fred

        if he is on one of these shows he is cheating

  • CNN

    I think people are quick to call Yandy over dramatic and especially hormonal because she is pregnant. I think she has every right to be like wtf are you serious???! She has never once not support Mendeecees throughout his court case and career. The way Remy was talked to Yandy like she’s nobody was unacceptable. Obviously Mendeecees has given his assistant the impression she can disrespect Yandy.

  • The assistant was clearly trying to stir up beef and create drama. Luckily for Mandeecees he checked her and put her in her place real quick if not the outcome would have been another story.

  • Bonita Gee

    So Damn Remy girl, just TAKE IT TO THE FACE! He CHECKED her ASS, big time, RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE CAMERAS!! Aaaaaaaaaaahhhhh!! She was trying to play that sh*t off like they were boyfriend and girlfriend, by hooking her arm up to his…….. DAMN………AWKWARD!! ……… I’m glad he let her know right then and there in front of the cameras. Mandeecees was just keeping it real!

  • TopGear

    He’s in be in the bar taking shots with her. And she made the statement that this is not the first time she grabbed his arm. Makes me think he turned up on her for the sake of the cameras.

  • Shinningstar

    Something about Yandy really turns me off. I tend to fast forward through here scenes.

  • equinox2009

    Why is a smart educated businesswoman like Yandy doing with this criminal.anyway? He still has an open case after spending a year and half in jail, she paid $200,000 bail and when gets out Yandy gets pregnant right away and he could possibly go to.prison for 20 years! I thought she was smarter than this, I guess I was wrong about her