RHOA Drama: Did Kandi Burruss Invite Gocha To Her Party To Humiliate Demetria?

Posted on Jan 5 2015 - 1:04am by Nancy

Gocha vs. Demetria

Last night on “The Real Housewives of Atlanta,” Kandi hosted one of her trademark sex/dildo-filled parties and invited her cast-mates to join in the naughty fun. Kandi included some friends from outside the ‘Housewives’ circle on the guest list, including one interesting character, celebrity hairstylist, Gocha Hawkins (pronounced Goshay).

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Gocha was the messy friend who interjected the unsolicited announcement claiming that she had dated Roger Bobb, while he was in his on again, off again romance with Demetria. Her admission brought a hush over the room, changed the entire mood of the party, and sent a shocked Demetria bolting for the door. Watch the dramatic scene below:


You might recognize Gocha from VH1’s “Lala’s Full Court Life,” where she appeared in a few episodes. Gocha is the girlfriend of Lala’s lesbian cousin, Dice, and has appeared on a few different reality shows. The thirst is real! Kandi was well aware of Gocha’s sexual preference, as well as the fact that she was dating a woman at the time. Kandi wanted Demetria humiliated, and seemingly orchestrated the whole embarrassing exposure. What were Kandi’s motives?  

Gocha Hawkins & Dice

Social media erupted questioning Gocha’s claims, and Demetria responded on her Instagram account with a post that captioned, “#Still. In case u were wondering..Lol! #RHOA,” accompanied by the following photo of Roger and Demetria holding hands. 

Dementria McKinney

Do you think Kandi invited Gocha to her party to humiliate Demetria? Sound off in the comments.


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Nancy loves to multi-task as a writer, she's an actress and online radio host. She received a B.S. in Mass Communications from LSU. She's married and the proud mom of 2 German Shepherds.

  • >:-|OPINIONATED-deal with it!

    I am over th RH Franchise. The shows use to be fun until it turned into catty bitc#es trying to get more tv time, and/or wannabe entrepreneurs who can’t run their lives let alone a business. There is nothing REAL about these scripted shows anymore.

    • Susan Thorne Zavagli

      I agree…..Nene is the only one who made it to the top…..Kandi was already a star…the rest of them are reaching for the brass ring…….I don’t get how Phaedra would allow Apollo to continue living in her home before sentencing

  • Susan Thorne Zavagli

    Kandi doesn’t encourage drama ……I don’t think she saw that coming

  • Sharon

    My opinion is that Kandi doesn’t have a beef with Demetria so I can’t see why she would want to “humiliate” her in the first place. 2nd if she did do so, it would be the first time on the show where she invited someone somewhere in order to humiliate them. That’s not the way Kandi rolls. 3rd if Roger Bobb (drink!) dated the blue haired woman while he was supposedly in a committed relationship with Demetria, it was HIM that was humiliating her, not Kandi.

    • Dani-K

      Excellent points!

  • Norrth

    Someone on Twitter posted that Gocha is Kandi and Nikki’s hairdresser/makeup artist. I have to wonder if she asked for an invite to spring her little surprise on Demetria.

  • Cai Kelly

    Kandi is more and more shady with each episode. I’m starting to really dislike her. First her terrible disrespect toward Todd’s mother, and then lately, a very insulting question to Claudia on her live show. No doubt she set up Demetria knowing full well what was about to go down. She brought the drama and there be some.

  • BuckJohnson

    Kandi has been playing dirty all season. Somebody needs to jam that bitch big time, and call her little midget ass out.